THE BIBLE DOESN'T SAY THAT: GOD WON'T GIVE US MORE THAN WE CAN HANDLE


Sermon Notes, January 20, 2019
Rev. Garry McGlinchy
Pastor Garry started a new sermon series, titled “The Bible Doesn’t Say That.” The first sermon in the series is “God Won’t Give Us More Than We Can Handle.”  The scriptural basis for his sermon is 1 Corinthians 10:1-6 & 11-13.
In this series we are dealing with the reality that sometimes Christians actually do damage by giving advice, saying phrases that might SOUND great, but in reality fall short.   We intend them to be helpful, but they rarely are, and the irony is that we THINK what we are saying is true, but it’s not. We think what we’re saying is biblical, or scriptural, but it isn’t found in scripture anywhere.  Because of this, there can be much damage done in the name of God and in the name of biblical truth.  The goal of this series is to clear up a few misunderstandings by helping us realized that the Bible doesn’t say that. .
There’s a false idea out there that life gets easier when we become Christians.  In some ways there’s some truth to that thought.  Matthew 11:28, Jesus tells us to take his yoke upon us and learn from him because his yoke is easy and his burden is light.  But that doesn’t mean we won’t have burdens—it just means He will be with us and help us work through it.  After all, a yoke is something that makes it possible for an ox to pull a load. 
Nowhere in the Bible does it say God won’t give you anything you can’t handle.  So where does this misconception come from?  In 1 Corinthians 10:12-13, it says “So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don’t fall! No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind.  And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear.  But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.”  Paul wrote this, and he is a man familiar with suffering.  Paul encourages us to remember God is FAITHFUL, that he will not let us be TEMPTED beyond what we can bear.  This is referencing a temptation to SIN, not relieving us of heavy burdens in life.  Often it’s the burdens we face that overwhelm us and lead us to take the easy way out, and this leads us to temptation.  Following Christ is absolutely amazing; it is spectacular and supernatural, but it’s not always easy.  And this is the hard truth we need to grab hold of:  God will absolutely give you more than you can handle—more than you could ever handle on your own.   This misquote leads to theological confusion.  It suggests God causes all adversity and trouble.  This line of thought can easily leave people confused about who God is.  Is God an angry God, weighing us down with pain?  Or is he (as scripture states in Jeremiah 29:11-13) a loving Father who has plans to prosper and not harm his children?
This misquote also leads to emotional guilt.  We think, “If God never gives more than I can handle, then what is wrong with me that I can’t handle this?”  This causes broken people to feel like failures.  Many of us are under unbearable pressure.  Some of us are facing tragedies in our lives, and when someone steps in and attempts to comfort us with “God won’t give us more than we can bear,” we conclude that we are too broken and lost, because we can’t bear this.  But that is not what this passage is saying.  Will God let us be overburdened?  Yes.  Will he leave us lost in temptation? No.  The truth is that life itself is often times more than we can possibly bear.  But here are three things that will help us deal  with this hurtful lie.
First, human suffering is UNIVERSAL.  Jesus says in John 16:33, “Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows.  But take heart, because I have overcome the world.”  Doesn’t matter how young or old you are, everyone experiences hardship.  Many learn powerful lessons from it.  Sometimes our trouble is self-inflicted, but all our lives are touched by hardship.  The vast majority of pain and suffering in our world comes either from the Devil’s attacks, or from the consequences of living in a fallen world.  God doesn’t cause all this.  But he gets blamed for every accident or disaster.  Particularly by people who don’t believe in him.  In reality, we are living in a broken, fallen world, and as a result the consequences of sin and suffering exist.
Second, God is FAITHFUL. This is a completely Christ-centered statement.  The error we make by saying that God will never give more than you can handle is self-centered.  God not giving us more than we can handle strikes a tone of fairness we instinctively gravitate toward.  But LIFE IS NOT FAIR!!!!  Life isn’t fair, and God isn’t fair either.  He is completely unfair to mankind.  He did not deal with us as our sins deserved.  He has been longsuffering, forbearing, patient, gracious and abounding in love.  God isn’t fair, and our salvation depends on that.  Let’s not suddenly ask him to make life fair, or we are all in a lot of trouble.  Suffering doesn’t care about your convenience.  There’s never a good time for life to be wrecked.  The conventional wisdom that God will not give me more than I can bear points people inward, but scripture points us God-ward.  God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble.  I will not fear when earthquakes come and the mountains crumble into the sea.  Let the oceans roar and foam.  Let the mountains tremble as the waters surge!” (Psalm 46:1-3)  Sometimes life gives us more than WE can handle, but it can never give us more than HE can handle.
Third, you are NOT ALONE.  Satan is the father of lies…he is set on destroying you.  The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy (John 10:10).  God’s design for life is based on COMMUNITY.  Both with him, through redemption and forgiveness, and with each other, living in community and friendship.  God gave us community.  Someone can walk alongside you, and God will be with you.  He may give you more, but He is with you, and He can handle it.  The picture of the yoke in Matthew 11:28-30 is of us being yoked together with Jesus.  He is beside us helping us lift our load.

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