FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT: GENTLENESS AND SELF-CONTROL



Sermon Notes, August 21, 2016
Rev. Garry McGlinchy
The last sermon in Pastor Garry’s sermon series on the fruits of the Spirit, based on Galatians 5:22-23 was titled “The Fruits of the Spirit: Gentleness and Self-Control.”  There are many different examples of gentleness and self-control but the person who most often comes to mind is Mary, the mother of Jesus, as she withstood the criticism and pain of her pre-marital pregnancy—and yet God chose her to be his son’s mother.  Gentleness is also evident from the woman who, with tears of gratitude gently washed Jesus’s feet and dried them with her own hair.  When thinking about self-control, a good example would be the story of Joseph running from Potiphar’s house as Potiphar’s wife made sexual advances toward him.  Another example would be David, who didn’t take Saul’s life when he had the opportunity—not once, but twice—when Saul was chasing him to kill him.
We’re going to look at two stories involving Jesus and His gentleness and self-control.  In Mark 10: 13-16 we read about Jesus and the little children, and in John 2:13-17, we read about one of the times Jesus clears the temple courts.  Jesus is both gentle and self-controlled in each of these stories.  In the first story we see people bringing their children to Jesus so that they can be blessed.  It was a common practice in Jewish culture for people to bring their children to a rabbi to be blessed.  And then we see the disciples rebuke the people for trying to get to Jesus, and they try to turn them away.  Jesus intervenes.  It’s easy to see how He was gentle in this situation, blessing the children with wonderful words for the future, but how was He self-controlled?  Just a short while before this happens, in the previous chapter of Mark, Jesus had taught His disciples to receive the children in His name and to be careful not to cause any of them to stumble.  The problem is that the disciples had already forgotten what Jesus had taught them about how important the children were.  Kind of like how parents feel when they tell their young son or daughter not to do something and within five minutes they are right there doing the very thing they were told not to do!  So Jesus rebuked the disciples.  He again told them how important the little children were to the kingdom of God and that they themselves would have to become like children in order to be part of that kingdom.  In rebuking the disciples, He is gentle and self-controlled. Jesus wants us to remember what He has taught us.  Like the disciples, even though our intentions are good, we sometimes turn people away from Jesus through our lack of gentleness and self-control because we’ve forgotten the first things Jesus taught us.
In the second story, Jesus is honoring the law by coming to the temple at the time of the Passover feast.  As He walks with His disciples, they come to the part of the Temple that was set aside for the unbelieving foreigners, called the Court of Gentiles.  Jesus sees that the religious leaders have made a mockery of this place of worship by allowing money-changers and animal merchants to conduct unjust business inside of the worship center!  He wasn’t upset because money was being changed, or because animals were being sold for the sacrifices that had to be made.  What infuriated Jesus that day was when people who were coming to worship God were being defrauded by religious hucksters.  People were using God to justify their selfish behavior.  Remember what Jesus said when He turned over the tables and sent the money-changers packing?  “My temple will be a place of prayer, but you have turned it into a den of thieves.”  The lesson we learn from this story is this: Keep God’s Temple pure.  Jesus responded with gentleness and self-control.  He braided a whip in order to do what He had in mind, so we know He was not out of control!  He was gentle in that He was respectful of even those who were doing people harm.  In verse 16 we read that Jesus went over to the people who sold the doves.  He didn’t release the doves; He told the people selling them to get out of the temple and take their doves with them.  The saddest part of this story is not the Jews who were being taken for a ride by the money-changers and the animal merchants for the currency and sacrifices they had to have.  No, the real tragedy is that the very place that was designated for unbelieving Gentiles to find the truth of God and worship Him was being turned into a place where truth was clouded by distractions and lies!
Gentleness and self-control.  Against such, there is no law.  Ever used a chainsaw?  When the teeth are sharp, it cuts wood like a knife in butter.  But the duller the blade, the harder you push.  The less time we spend sharpening our relationship with Jesus and remembering the lessons He has taught us, the more is spent bearing down on others, and we lose our gentleness and self-control.  When we get pushy and agitated it is because we are using a dull saw.  However, the more time we spend in reading and understanding God’s word, the more our lives will be gentle and self-controlled.  These stories are important for us today because they teach us not only the meaning of gentleness and self-control, but they show us how these attributes, these fruit of the Spirit, are evident in our everyday lives.  We are to learn from Him and be obedient to Him, remembering lessons previously taught, keeping His temple pure.  We are to be life-long learners.  He wants a relationship with us!  Spirit-filled people live Spirit-filled lives.

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